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Discover How Your Can Change Your Financial Future

Napoleon Hill has said that what the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve. Our only limitations are those we set up in our own minds. Thus, if we only have to dream, why is it sometimes so difficult to see our dreams come true. We start looking for people who can give us insights how to get there, but it still doesn’t change our lives. We still end up at the same lives we have. According to Bruce Lipton the reason is that just because we put something in our conscious mind it doesn’t change our subconscious belief system.

Jamie Mc Intire claims that the right mindset represents 80% of success. T. Harv Eker, a self-made millionaire states that you can have all the knowledge and skills in the world, but if your “Money blueprint” isn’t set for success, you’re financially doomed. Thus, to get different results we have to change our subconscious behaviorwhich is according to Self-Made Millionaires our Money Blueprint.

subconscious behavioris shaping and dictating our life at every moment. Beliefs start to emerge almost as soon as we can understand our language. Our parents fill us with their ideas about life and how they see it. They are usually only trying to help us, but their viewpoint on life may be severely limited as a lot of their own beliefs would have been fed to them via their parents and their viewpoint may also have been limited. We then get more input via our school teachers and also the media which form our Money Blueprint. We all have a personal Money Blueprint – positive or negative beliefs about money – ingrained in our subconscious minds, and it is this blueprint, more than anything, that will determine our financial lives. It is simply how we think, feel and act about money. He brings examples such as “money doesn’t grow on trees”, “we can’t afford it”, and when this is told to you over and over, then eventually this will sink in and become one of your own beliefs regarding money – your money blueprint.

The job of your subconscious mind is to protect you. It is like your guardian angel. If you and your outer circumstances have programmed your subconscious mind to keep you poor, because you have been raised in faith that “money is not important”or that “rich people are selfish”, then it will keep you poor in order to protect you. This is referred by Gary Craig as a “comfort zone” which forms a ceiling on your progress. Whenever we get into a situation that doesn’t seem safe, the subconscious mind will disrupt the energy system and we will feel uncomfortable and we will experience it as an emotion. Your consciousness about abundance has a certain capacity; you will receive exactly what your consciousness is capable of handling. And according to Liza Jimenez your subconscious mind will start to sabotage you every time you try to make money and become rich.

According to Harv Eker our physical material world is nothing more than printouts of our emotional, mental, and spiritual world. Our thoughts and words influence our environment as well as ourselves and create our reality. Thoughts lead to feelings, which lead to actions, which lead to results, and hence the key to attaining great wealth begins with thinking – like rich people do. You can change your Money Blueprint at the Millionaire Mind Intensive Seminar. You can’t change your Money Blueprint at home because old habits die hard. Your Money Blueprint will be changed right there at the Millionaire Mind Intensive through extremely high-impact, life-changing processes that you cannot do at home on your own.

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Finding What You Need And Making What You Already Have More Effective

If you had everything in this world you wanted; what would you do? Have you ever asked yourself that question before? Maybe you have and maybe you have not. Think about having everything; whatever that might be, that you think would make you happy. My thought would be that life would be pretty dull in that there would be no purpose to life; it would no doubt be void.

In Life Coaching, my thoughts go to this; it is not what we do not have that makes us unhappy. It is that we do not know how to command what we have. We are all on a journey toward something but we know that having enormous amounts of money does not supply full contentment, happiness or success. If it did, there would not be so many people in so much pain in Hollywood. They have lots of money, but they cannot be contented with one woman or one man for any length of time, they adopt dozens of kids trying to prove they can be good parents, every time you turn around; someone has been arrested for a DUI. That is not the life that most of us covet, if we are honest with ourselves. The list goes on and on. You cannot buy your way into tranquil living…it takes looking into your soul and putting your priorities in order and starting at the top of the list working through those issues one at a time.

Do you know that the typical person cannot seem to do that? I do not know why it is so hard for us humans to take a course in finding oneself and say; okay what I can do to make my life better. What am I doing partially and how can “I” fix it? I have seen people that I cared about who were helpless it seemed and they could not see that their negative attitude made their life lesstolerable . These are the people you want to shake and say, stop doing this to yourself. A negative attitude is worse than having a aliment sometimes, because if happy things occur in their life; they tear it down immediately with the “what ifs.” We cannot life our life successfully with the what ifs or what could happen being the imperious factors in life. When I start to think a negative thought, I try to replace it with a thankful thought of what I am blessed with and ask for an ability to create within myself what I need to make things better.

Why not stop and ask yourself; what do I need to do better with what I have? Most of us could take what we have and make a few adjustments in our life and live an outstanding life, if we chose to. If you do not have the perfect job; my advice is in this economy it might be better to dedicate yourself to making your job more enjoyable if at all possible. I just saw a clip on television where a lady had applied for 600 jobs and had not had an interview yet. I am not kidding. If you have a degree and a lot of credentials in the same field and there are open positions available and know you have what it take to for the new job; then it might be time to move on. A lot of times it is not the job; it is what you might not be applying to it. If it is impossible, it is your call and a step forward is probably better than no step at all, but with caution and keeping it to yourself until you have landed the other job.

If you are unhappy in a relationship; maybe it is not the relationship you are unhappy with. It could be you are miserable with you. The only way to get happy with you is to be honest with yourself and make sure you are doing what you should be doing to make the relationship work. Especially if it is a marriage and you have children. There are exclusions to every rule when it comes to relationships. A good relationship does bring comfort and enjoyment in ones life and it is this part of life that is the most rewarding and best to keep preserved. A marriage that is successful is far more important than landing the VP job.

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What Makes It Compelling For Us To Be Reminded Of Our Great Fortune Of Being Healthy And Competent Humans?

I wonder if you have ever thought about what it would be like to have a disability. Most of us take so much for granted and we are always crying in self pity when we have all of our natural endowments and we are not inadequate of accomplishing anything reasonable in life. What the mind can conceive, the mind can achieve…I believe that.

Just recently I did a little study and it amazes me that so many of us take so much of our existence for granted. When I see an individual who has a true handicap I want to kick myself for being selfish and for not being more thankful. It seems that the people who have been handed an detriment having the knowing of how to better with their less fortune circumstances; than we know how to deal with our fully equipped life. We can see, hear, walk, feed ourselves and in fact we are mobile in every aspect of our life, yet we are resentful. Well, not quite; oh, physically we are mobile, but somehow we have lost the conscious ability to live life to the fullest.

Let me explain my point in a little detail. When is the last time you took a walk in the forest or the garden where the calm exist; that we have been given and really looked at the exquisite creation. Were thankful you could walk, hear the birds sing, watch the squirrels’ play; see the acorns fall and the green leaves on the trees? I find myself disapproving of the leaves, (we have a Magnolia tree, so the leaves and debris fall year round to some degree) keep falling on the lawn. There are those who are less fortunate in this world who would love to be able to walk outside, rack the leaves, put them in a pile and probably jump into the pile and laugh as hard as they could for doing it. I find myself in self pity sometimes for reasons that are disconnected because of what I can’t do, or don’t have; without being thankful for all things that I have. I can think, study, and learn, read, walk, and run, if I had to, play, drive, and have all the benefits of a good life.

Those of us that are blessed to have all of our abilities are less fortunate it seems, than the disabled in so many ways because they know how to use their limited ability in some instances to make life bearable and here we are complaining we don’t have enough of anything. Enough of what, do we not have to give our life the momentum we need to be successful? I do not think that it is about what we need; it is about not utilizing what we already have. We are born winners…yet we do not win because we are sitting on our backside by letting someone else to do everything for them. How many teenagers in our world today know what it is to work for their allowance? How many know how important it is to be controlled spenders or conservative anything? It is all done for them, they are spoiled and do not have enough to keep them busy so they find unhealthy things to do. I am not being vindictive, if you haven’t read the statics of our youth today; you need to. I guess one could ask if we are teaching them live a careless life. “Please get your education or you will have to work for a living.” This is what they are told sometimes; life will be harder and it surely will but there are other values to getting the proper education one needs to live a more gratifying life. Are we being fair to them if we are encouraging them choose the easy way of life? I do not think there is a way to get ahead in life or survive in this business world, if you do not know what real labor is. Life is not about being the boss and someone else doing the work, most people generally start out at the bottom; at least where I come from you do. I worked about 14 years before I was in “charge” or management in one profession, longer when considering my full work history.

Intelligence does mean that we have our cake and eat it too. Brilliance is only the beginning of what it takes to make an impression in this world. If we do not use the ability we have been given or earned; we will lose it one way or the other. For instance, if a singer does not sing regularly, the ability to sing will eventually leave that person. One must practice their skills to become greater and benefit from their abilities and knowledge. It is not life that brings disappointment most of the time, it is not living life the way it should be lived. It is not being able to see our own frailties in whatever it is that we are doing. It is not knowing when you have not given your inimitable . You really do not need someone cheer you on; you will never make the grade if you wait for the applause of someone else. It would probably teach us all a great reprimand if we were to live for one day with a disability. We would then probably rethink our life…

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Conceiving We All Inherent Human Emotions

I have a little furry friend who reminds me of someindividuals who try to be tough and act like they could care less if someone cares about them. Her name is Sugar and she is the cutest little grey cat I’ve have ever had. The mother cat was young when the four little ones were born and of course I helped in the delivery. It was Valentine’s Day one year ago and I was only home on the weekend and it appeared that Kitty Girl knew it was Saturday, so she decided it was time. I picked Sugar to be mine, because she was so furry and cute; different, but unpredictable , Sugar did not pick me. She endures me at times; but she did not pick me. She doesn’t like a lot of loving and she simply wants to be left alone. Not like her brother Blackie, because he will come to mommy every night to say good night before retiring. Blackie is just as black as Sugar is grey. Sugar possessesOppositionjust like us humans.

Blackie unlike his sister; he loves to be rubbed, petted and shows his affection. Sugar looks for the towering things to jump upon to sleep usually; just to get out of the way and not be bothered. She does love to find mommy drinking tea and wants some of it but as a general rule; only seldom does she come around to be stroked or rubbed. She will tolerate it sometimes but you wonder if she is actually gritting her teeth wishing I would quit. People with this same attitude appear to have Fear just like Sugar.

My question now is, haven’t you seen people like this? I have and it seems that children are the same way. They are all dissimilar and like different things but when it is all said and done, they will accept a mother’s love, most of the time. Some people do not want another person touching them in any fashion. Hands off, leave me alone; get the heck out of my sight. You know who they are.

I do not think it is not that they genuinely want to be left alone. I think it is actually a disguise and they have needs in which they cannot voice. I actually believe it goes deeper into the core of their being and they are actually longing for something they do not already have. This is not proven by me, it is my perceptions. They want to appear they are without desire ; they are self sufficient and they can handle whatever comes their way. It seems that sometimes these individuals are afraid to let go and care about something or someone strong enough and had rather appear that are fully capable of making life without any interference from anyone.

Sugar seems pretty steady in her actions. Some people are the same way; nothing seems to block their actions and they would die before they let you know they have a need. I don’t think Sugar is going to change. We humans can change if we see the need.

In my study of human nature and some characteristics I found out that we humans have the same basic need. Appreciation, respect, recognition and love to mention a few. Sometimes we want to deny our dependence on any of these human emotions but let someone rub us the wrong way and be rude or show no appreciation for our efforts in whatever we are doing….it then comes to life. Some people have needs that are stronger than others, some more often than others and some too often as they produce inappropriate
behaviors; but usually at some point in our life we have these needs. Denying ourselves the ability to show human love, care, affection, friendship or kinship is denying we are human and without the tendencies we were intended to have. These are blessings; not a cursing, because there is nothing more wonderful than having someone to care, appreciate, respect and love who we are and us have the same feeling in return be it friend, family or acquaintance.

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You Determine Your Spirit By Processing The 11 Forgotten Laws Of Attraction.

The Creation does not reckon nor amount nor time. For the Cosmos , it is the same easy work to provide one Euro or one billion Euro. It is the same algorithmic program. The only cause , why the one Euro can come sooner then one billion , is your own imagination , that one million Euro is much more money so it “must” take longer to come and the one Euro is not that much cash so it can endure much less to arrive. You can get whole digital course 11 Forgotten Laws free.

For some people it is much easier to captivate small things and this is also why I advise you start experiencing with the small stuff. Start with something small like free train certificate. Imagine yourself speaking with an old friend of yours you have not seen long time. For some reason someone will declare that person in front of you. And the next thing that will take place will be that you will whether receive call or meet that person.

To start with something tiny is a great way to experience on your own the might of the 11 forgotten laws. After enough time of practicing you will understand why when someone is talking all the time , without ironic , “I got a great luck , I always win something” , is winning one thing after another. These people are awaiting it. Start to expect big things and you will begin to plan your own life.

Manage your day! You can apply 11 Forgotten Laws to plan your whole future life , starting with the thing you will start doing right now. There are old papers from the past that are pointing out the value of the future managing of your day. If you say to yourself : “Today will come an nice visit” or : “There is really pleasant tour waiting for me” , you are actually sending the forces of the Space before you , so they can manage things and your visit or tour could be nice. If you are in the bad mood before the visit , trip or just shopping , or you are scarred of something bad that could transpire and you are making worries , you are spreading the very mighty and bad force before you , which will make some bad situations , you can be pretty sure of that. Our ideas or better said our mood , is processing all the time and is planning positive or negative thing for us.

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We Are As Magnet Using 11 Forgotten Laws Even While Sleeping.

There is one great FAQ or frequently asked question when it arrives to 11 forgotten laws Bob Proctor coaches. How long will it take to manifest something I want ? When will I goad my new automobile ? When will I be in my new house ? Believe me when I tell you , there is no such thing like guide which will tell how long it will take. It may be as short as forty minutes or as long as thirty days. It mostly hangs on how you are tuned up on the pulse of the Universe.

The time is only illusion. This is what Einstein told us. If you hear this quote for the first time , it may be shocking to you and unbelievable for you to accept this truth , simply because you see all day long how are things acting and changing all the time. Scientists and Einstein are telling us , that everything is happening at the same time. If you can accept , that time does not exist and learn this reality , then you will see , that anything you wish in the future already exists in present day. If everything is transpiring at the same time , so it means there already is the parallel version of yourself who already got what you wish.

The Space do not need time to manifest what you wish. Every delay that will appear is made because you alone are late on your way to the point , when you will finally believe , know and feel , that you already got it. It is only up to you , to get to the frequency of the thing you wish. Just after you will get on the pulse of the thing you wish , it will appear.

The size means nothing for the Creation. From the point of view of science , there is no division between attracting something very big and something very small. The Space is doing everything with the zero effort. The grass is not toiling when it grows. It grows with no effort. This is how the big plan works. It is only a question of what is taking place in your mind. It is all just about the things we say to ourselves. “It is too big , it will take some time” Or : “This is peace of cake. I bet it will take max one hour”. These are our personal rules and we made them. When it comes to the Space there are no such guidelines. You alone will create the feeling , that you already got it and the Space will just simply oppose on that idea and materialize it – it can be anything. All of this is mentioned in the 11 forgotten laws Bob Proctor teaches.

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Why Are We Charging Through Existence Without Consciousness ?

It is probably easier than one thinks to be bogged down in our life pattern, because we all do it at sometimes or the other without realizing it. We have all started out to work and we got there without attentiveness about the street turns, the stop lights, the detour or the exit. We just got there! Okay, let’s be honest; how many times have you done this? I’ll just bet a few…

Our entire essence is like this sometimes also, we are adamant about our routine and we can probably go through our day blindfolded. Well, almost. Having said that; think about it and think about your day to day practices. Is it true, do you realize you are living in automatic? It is frightening when we think about it but let’s go over the days actionsto see if we are not doing all of these on automatic or at least some of it.

We rise in the morning at 6 a.m.; we produce breakfast for ourselves and family (if applicable). We have either bolted into the shower the night before or before we made breakfast. We eat quickly as we must dress the children for nursery or school and have to prepare lunches and then we have to dress ourselves and make sure dad is up and dressed. We are still rushing and in a hurry to start the day, whatever day it is, because it seems like Wednesday and it is only Monday. We finally get spruced-up ourselves and here we are out the door with the children and off to the many stops we have at the nursery, kindergarten. We made it to work by 8:30 a. m. but the details of the morning are all very indescribable . It just happened like it does every morning, to our own amazement. Oh, we are not finished. If we can just make it to lunch, we will be fine. We will sit down, have a glass of tea or water and take a breath for what is about to be the afternoon. We then have our meeting and give our business plan which we did not have time to analyze ; oh that’s okay, no one knows what was in it anyway. So we got past that problem, we think and it is now time to make those return calls to customers who called yesterday and are probably thinking that the company has lost their best employee. Man, now it is almost 5 p. m. and we shoot out the door; oh, that’s right the other spouse is picking the children up so that you can go by the grocery store and pick up food for dinner.

I think we know what went on the balance of the day and we get up the next morning and repeat the same actions again. Now, tell me if you live each minute in consciousness of each task or if you were actually in a trance doing what you are formulated to do.

Is this good for anyone? I don’t know how we live as long as we do actually. I do think age has something to do with this. When we are young we have more zest and seem to get it all done but that still does not mean that we are actually living our life the way it should be live. It is probable that we need to slow down and take note of what we are doing. As we age, we become more aware that we need to live more in the moment and make sure we aren’t missing something. As we age we realize we do not have as many tomorrows as we once did, if we have any at all.

When we live like this; we aren’t even using our full brain authority. I believe it would suite us well to stop and think about what we are doing. We might have to take some time to awaken and take a vacation out of habitual living into a fully conscious status. Then and only then will we be truly living.

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We Must Make Sure We Are Living Purposefully To Avert Mistakes And Disappointments

This is a place that we sometimes do not like to go as we do not like to talk about our mistakes and failures. Well, just so we all agree; these are a part of life and we know we can’t change them by talking about them; but we might teach ourselves to be insightful of our actions; by reviewing why we seem to have too much of these at times in our life. Making Positive changes to overcome the dead remorse which our mistakes and failures bring is am important decision. We must deal with the present issues for us to recover and get back on the road to success once we realize we are living our life without full consciousness of our daily actions.

It is a common aspect of life and it isn’t going to change but we can correct the bad stuff by being aware of how we are actually living our life. We get off track sometimes and some more than others. It does not have to be anything big or detrimental to living a good life but as they say “little foxes spoil the vine.” We can look back and see some places; we could have done things a whole lot better and our efforts to change will help us in the future.

There are times when we disregard signs about where we are headed and thereby, we let go of something or someone; before we gave it time to work. We fail sometimes because we look at others and what they have mastered not realizing that we cannot compare our own life to another. We must strive to hear what our heart tells us and be sure it is the right way; if that is possible. All things we do in life should have a plan, a starting point, a progression period and then when it levels off to be the normal. But I really do not think that we can ever stop guarding our behaviors, our purpose, our goals because if we stop; we get off track and make more mistakes, that have to be corrected.

When we have a relationship, we have a plan to work at it, make it beautiful, and maintain it with passion and know it takes a lot of care. Yet so many times after the new wears off, we get busy with other life things and forget to take the necessary provisions to make it as special. We forget it needs care, sometimes more later, than in when new. What do you know; somebody is unhappy out the blue. Sometimes it is too late, sometimes it can be fixed and sometimes it seems too much neglect was the final draw and we have to deal with what we call “failure.”

What is the first step to recover from mistakes or failure? Simple sometimes yet involved, but we must learn from our mistakes to live a more desirable life. Usually if we are precocious we certainly know we do not want to repeat the same behaviors. We should stop living life in instinctive mode. It is said that we do not know what we are doing even half of the time as we operate our life like we do machinery and out of habit. We live in such a rush and we are designed to just do what come natural. Sometimes natural turns into things that are not good for us and can detain us on our journey. We should start living in full consciousness and awareness. If we are to make fewer mistakes in our life we have to take note of how we are living on a daily basis and decide if we need adjustments to live life better and more satisfying. We have to be conscious of how we are traveling on our journey every day and every minute.

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Why Let Fear Of Change Control Your Ability Of Life

Fear sometimes keeps an individual from doing something that could change their life for the good forever, yet it is sometimes hard to recognize, control and overcome. One of the greatest fears is rejection. We do not want to feel rejection so sometimes we will not follow our heart because of it. We also fear deficiencies not realizing that failure is a part of life. If we had no failure, we would be at a perfect state in life and that does not exist. Adjustments in life are many and about many conditions of our life to include but not limited to; relationships, careers, personal growth, becoming a better person, changing our concept of life, spiritual growth, learning how to cope with a disabled child, letting our kids fight their own battles and many other situations in life. We could discuss this issue very widely but we will actually touch only a couple of things in this article.

I have seen parents have fears for their children and they want them to have the best, the absolute best, meaning no hardships, no hindrance in life, nothing to upset them; and I am talking about grown children. If something negative happens or someone says something they feel is unjust toward them, they are ready to jump into the battle without being invited. They have never let go and they need to let the Rejection thoughts subside and change their behavior. The children are not under their watch any longer and they cannot go through their entire life trying to fight life’s battles for their children. No one can make it through life without having conflict and no one’s children merit this behavior and they are not enabling their abilities to cope with life. They will have struggles and they will have to work through them, themselves; and remember that to live in our world as it is; this is a phase of life where we learn about ourselves and others.

I am sure there is no perfect formula to prevent the fear of change or failure or the other emotions we feel. What I do know and have learned; is that when we make a decision to do something we fear; it gives us the capability and capacity to do it. It is like once we make the decision and we become fully equipped to make it happen, so that means that our biggest fear is not that we can’t make it happen, but in wondering if it is the right decision.

We could use as an example an unhappy partner needs to make a change regarding finances in the relationship. The situation is causing frustration and bickering; tearing them away inside and it has to be stopped. The guilty spouse is simply spending loads of money depleting their saving and being wasteful. The not guilty party is trying to be level headed and fears that the guilty party is being selfish yet knows this can’t be said; so they let it go. Where and how it is going to be tackled must be decided and acted upon.

First decision needed is to attack the fear of confronting the issue with the guilty one which appears to be biggest issue. Being afraid it will only make things worse and be of no advantage, does not make it go away. So if it is not resolved, it will become more intense and harder to repair. What exist sometimes is the sensibility and the method used to confront an issue of this nature and then sometimes it doesn’t matter how it is confronted; it doesn’t work. That is when an intervention of professional help could be warranted in a situation like this. It may be easy to work through but if you don’t try, you will not know and this stands true with any given change in ones life. We have to begin before we can resolve. We have to see the need to change before we take action, but we must take action. Once we see the need and let go of the fear we can find an recourse that may work. There is nothing in life that can’t be resolved with some kind of solution, it might not be what we desire, but not trying is the greatest failure.

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Why Is It That Most People Want To Find Success But Do Not Comprehend What It Really Is?

What is Success? We have asked that question over a few times and we get many diverse interpretations and it seems that we still do not have all the right answers. We know efforts is a key ingredient.

Success according to the Dictionary:

• achievement of intentions- achievement of something planned or attempted
• something that turns out well – something planned and turned our well as intended
• fame or fortune, money

Thesaurus Definition:

• accomplishment
• achievement
• arrival
• good luck
• fortune
• fruition
• profit
• favorable outcome
• prosperous
• effective
• triumphant

We could name more terminology but we have enough to elaborate with these. I like the Thesaurus definitions because it is inclusive of more things than just something planned, money or fame. We have good fortune, good luck, favorable outcomes; we are effective and even victorious, everyday in our life. Therefore success is not something that is unattainable. It is about accomplishments, achievements and sometimes appears to be good luck. Sometimes I think people think they will never be successful because they defining success as something it is not; and they are actually achieving the definitions listed under Thesaurus in some area of their life.

I am not one to believe that success is much about good luck. Being Successful is a part of life that you get the consequences of your labor. Success is about your plans, what you seek and how hard you strive to accomplish your desires. You work toward something, not to the finish line as it takes time to get there; if there is a finish. It is said that Success if a Journey. If one makes reasonable goals and if you work toward achieving them, they should be achievable, one at a time. Of course we humans desire to have more material things; and live well but that is not the essence of really living well. This is not all bad by any means, but it is not the most important approach to becoming successful. There are times that we do not reach what we set out to; these are the times we have back up and start over and find what did not work and possibly why.

The essence of living well is living within our means and feeling good about where we are. It seems when people get into trouble it is because they have reached beyond what they can afford. Success is about fruition….fulfillment, which can mean that we are fulfilled emotionally and are happy with our life. Success is making sure we have our priorities straight. We know that Success consist of many areas of our life; not just in the financial or career area.

If success could be fully achievable all at some point; we would see people saying; okay, I have all it all, I don’t need anything further. I am done, now I can sit back and relax.

I do not believe that success transpires like this. I believe that success is something we walk toward, strive at, keep reaching for in all areas of our life and receive it spareling . In other words; we finally get the kids in college, we finally have them graduate, we have the college education paid for, we have our house paid for, we are going on that dream vacation and someone is working toward being VP of my company. Success is goals we reach for one step at a time. Each one is a victory which has come from hard work and dedication.

Success is not all about getting to be the President of Google. It is about getting to where we are appeased with our progress toward our goals within our family, our friends, our faith and our careers. It is not all about wealth.

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